Famous Nigerian singer Temilade Openiyi, popularly known as Tems, has opened up on the qualities she seeks in a potential partner for a relationship.

During an interview on Korty EO’s YouTube show, the Grammy Award-winning singer and songwriter shared her insights into what she values most in a man.

According to the Grammy-winning singer, her top priorities in a relationship include humor, emotional intelligence, and spiritual maturity.

She revealed that these traits are non-negotiable for her when considering a romantic partner.

“You have to be emotionally intelligent, very funny, and spiritually adept. Just on that journey of your own,” Tems said.

Tems went on to express her  skepticism about the intentions of many men she encounters. She mentioned that she often perceives their motives as transparent and singular, which makes it challenging for her to trust the authenticity of their words.

In her words; 

“The thing is I know their intentions, most of the times they have one intention, as most guys do [Laughs]. They are very obvious, so how can I even trust this conversation we are having it’s not even real, everything you say is fake.

I have thing I am looking for, You have to be emotionally intelligent, very funny, and you have to be spiritually adept, inclined and mature. Just on that journey of your own. To boys that like me ‘show me’.”

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